Sorry...

...for the lack of posts lately. I'm in San Francisco and have been here most of the week for work. I get home tonight and hope to be back to more regular posting soon!

Laundry Day

Boy in a Bucket

He may be extra large, but he can make himself pretty small when he wants to...

The Hand-Off

Thomas has been busy almost every night for the last two weeks thanks to two techs and his role as Lord Montague, so I've been playing the role of primary caregiver. The last two days we've been blissfully able to share responsiblites, but now I'm handing the baton over to Thomas. I leave early in the morning to spend most of this week in nyc, and I'll be in San Francisco most of next week. We're really looking forward to more togetherness in March!

Highly Entertained

In this video, watch as Carter is highly entertained by the tv. He is also highly entertaining...

Valentine's Day

Continuing our annual tradition, Thomas and I cooked chicken fried steak, fried okra and artichokes for dinner tonight. It is a dinner we are happy to eat once a year -- and it is a dinner our bodies are happy we eat ONLY once a year!

Thomas digs in.

Thomas takes a break from fried to contemplate our love.

Thomas prepares to indulge in the one wildcard of our Valentines night - dessert. This year, it was chocolate-cinnamon mousse with cherry-port sauce (we had to come up with something yummy... we've counted on Billy's Bakery for dessert for years!)

Valentine Kisses

An Experiment

I've been conducting a little experiment lately. A couple of days a week, I leave the house around lunch time and go for a little...run. Completely out of character for me, I know. But, there are a lot reasons for me to give running a try:

1. I'm quite out of shape.
2. Since I'm quite out of shape, I get a workout really fast.
3. Running is free and requires no equipment.
4. Running gets me out of the house. (Since I work at home, we have only one car, and Carter is cared for at home, I can go DAYS without leaving the house.)

Of course, there are also lots of reasons that this is a completely ridiculous idea:

1. I hate running.
2. I've always hated running.
3. I will always hate running.
4. We live at the top of a hill, so no matter which way you run, you have to come home uphill.

So, the jury is still out on how this experiment will go. I'll keep you posted.

When We Aren't Paying Attention

This is what I caught Carter doing this weekend when I wasn't paying attention.


Needless to say, I was shocked, so I made him replay the entire ordeal, step-by-step.

Yep. He'll wash his hands for fun, all on his own. However, he won't, necessarily do it on command.

Culinary Genius?

Carter has been getting creative in the kitchen. Last night's feast: mandarin oranges with peas. It made for beautiful plating, but it's not a flavor combination I'd want to try.

Carter ate it all - by the handful.

Culinary Genius.

Last night, Joo and I set out to make a meal that would be delicious and would not require Joo to eat "some weird vegetable" (I apparently do that to her quite often with my cooking). We made grown-up mac n' cheese, compete with peas, bacon, wine-sauteed scallions and lots of sharp cheddar (we weren't shooting for low-fat). It was delicious and weird-veggie-free. It passed the kid test, too. Carter wolfed down the leftovers tonight.

Joo's Visit

Joo (or, "Boo", as she and Carter have decided she should be called) is visiting this weekend! She is ostensibly here to see all of us, but she seems a little more interested in one of us...

Camellia

The camellia tree in front of our house is in full bloom. (I'm quite proud to finally be able to remember the name of this plant. I've been calling it our chlamydia tree for months...)

February is so much better here than in New York! I've been wearing short sleeves, and things are starting to poke out of the ground!

I know, I know, it will probably get cold again before spring sets in, but it's still so wonderful to have nice days like this in February!

Pop Quiz Answer

The answer, of course, is contacts. The reason, however, deserves some documentation. Following in Eleanor's opera footsteps, I was recruited/volunteered to be in the next Atlanta Ballet production of Romeo & Juliet as Lord Montague. Luckily for all involved, especially the audience, it is a non-dancing role, HOWEVER, it does involve an on-stage sword fight with very heavy broadswords. We open tonight and run for two weekends, so if you are in town, it will be interesting!

The Costume
...and TIGHTS!

New Words

Carter is learning new words all the time. His Uncle Park is helping out with some fun ones... (sorry the video is pretty dark)

Pop Quiz

Notice anything different about Thomas' face?

First Marshmallow

He liked it.

Toddler Food

Carter is a good eater. He eats a good mix of foods, and we really shouldn't complain about his eating habits. But sometimes we do.

He is getting quite a bit more finicky lately. In typical toddler fashion, it's not so much about one food versus another, its about him asserting his independance. One day he'll eat something, the next day he'll refuse. And, in general, Carter isn't fond of is leftovers. If I reheat something, he's not into it. It's as if he knows I didn't put out sufficient effort.

So, I've discovered a trick that (so far) virtually guarantees that he'll eat what we give him. If he helps cook it, he'll eat it (he's also guaranteed to eat it if it is a waffle or mac n' cheese).

I've been letting Carter help pour, mix and season his food. We watch the toaster oven or the microwave, and I talk to him about what we're doing. Even if its as simple as letting him hold the peppermill while I put a tiny bit of pepper on the leftovers before they go in the microwave, the participation is sufficient to get him to eat the food. The first night I tried this trick, he wolfed down an entire fillet of asian-spiced tilapia and green beans. Another night, in my desparation to find something he could sprinkle on some leftover lima beans, I chose a spice that was a bit too spicy. It was clear that Carter's mouth was on FIRE, but he refused to stop eating. Fire-mouth aside, the only other problem is the time it takes to get the food from the heat source to his plate. He's not fond of waiting for the food he has prepared to cool down!

As with most toddler tricks, I don't expect this to work for long... but I've gotten a week out of it, so that's something!

Words

Carter continues to pick up words at his own pace, but they are coming decidely faster these days (or, more likely, we're starting to understand what he's been saying all along). Here are a few of his favorite words these days:

food (na-na)
waffle
lunchbox (unbaugh)
the door (da doh - always ending on a very high pitch, as if asking "[who's at] the door?")
oh no (ooooooh nooooo!)
elmo
Thomas (dada)
Me (mama)
milk (ma-ma)
more (ma, most often: ma-ma-ma-ma)

Yes, those last three are a bit confusing.