Carter has played quite a few team sports over the last few years: soccer, t-ball, basketball. And they've all pretty much gone the same way. Carter primarily wants to wear the uniform and eat the snacks, but has no interest in playing the sport. So we stopped signing him up for sports. Which, of course, made him want to play more. We cut him a deal with t-ball this summer. He could play, but he really had to play or else we'd stop going. Also, we wouldn't sign him up for a fall sport if he didn't participate in the summer sport. Naturally, he made a very good effort in t-ball this summer, so we signed him up for soccer. I actually think the change in his attitude was due more to him being developmentally ready than it was to our deal, but either way, he now seems to (mostly) be as interested in playing the sport as he does in donning the uniform.
Carter's soccer team this fall was the very BEST team we've ever been on! It was really fun for Carter and for us. There are several reasons for this:
- We already knew the coaches and more than half of the team members (previously, we've been randomly assigned and didn't know anyone).
- The team practiced and played games at a school that is just down the street from our house, so no messing with driving and parking.
- The practices were on Friday nights, so we didn't feel the pressure about getting home and getting homework and dinner done by bedtime.
- The weather was perfect for every practice and game.
- Carter really improved his soccer skills!
- The coaches were so great. During the first practice, Carter and his friend David found a stick after practice and several of the boys on the team really wanted to keep it. One of the coaches took it home, painted it gold, and made it their "team stick" it came to most games.
- Because the practices were on Friday nights, and walking distance from our house, I found myself with a sippy cup of wine or beer, chatting with parents I know and like on most Friday nights.
I think we're going to have to give up sports for good now, because I'm pretty sure we won't have it this good ever again!
| The team (pictures, thankfully, before we lost Carter's jersey) |
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| Post-season party on election night |
| Team cake |













